Post by Renee' on Jan 31, 2006 14:27:24 GMT -5
OK I just woke up this morning with all this crap in my head. I'm just so sick and tired of all these relationship crap. Me and my friend were up talking about it this morning.
I'm done and through I just came to the conclusion it's all the f**king same. Plus it really doesn't matter if its a guy or a girl. Women bi**h about men but yet, they go off and do the same exact thing or men bi**hing about woman, yet they do the exact same thing.
They want you to be honest with them but yet when you do, then they get all bent out of shape and start bi**hing about it, until you just want to keep your mouth shut. Then they say why don't you ever tell me the truth or ever talk to me any more.
Then there is you tell them to be honest with you and they don't. They either tell you a whole bunch of bull sh*t or just play games with you, and not tell you what is exactly on their mind.
Oh I love this one the f**king control freak, you let them do whatever the hell they want without bi**hing about it, because you really don't care, you just want to treat them like how you want to be treated. Then when you want to go out or do something they bi**h about it and their reason is really no reason at all. Or can you do this for me can you do that for me. Yeah sure, you want to do things for them, but MY GOD when the pen is right in front of your face and in reach that's just plain laziness.
The mind reader oh I love this your suppose to know whats on their mind, with out them telling you. Are you sure its OK yeah, yeah go ahead its fine. Then you come back and they start bi**hing at ya saying, I cant believe you actually went. You said it was OK, yeah but you should of known. Or the ones where your suppose to know that they like or dislike you, where your suppose to read their minds or they play little games with you, it's like just come out and say it d**n it.
The ones who are not themselves. They try to be like everyone else and not who they are. If you have something to say say it, if your being honest about it and that's how you feel, f**k it who cares what every one else thinks. You can actually tell the truth and whats on your mind, also without being rude or hurtful about it. If you like something or don't like something you have that right you shouldn't be forced to not like or dislike anything.
Manipulation also when they try to make you think they are one way but when you get with them, they mislead you. They were just trying to get you then you find out who they really are.
So basically, I'm through and over I have decided there is no guy out there that thinks the same way or at least a little close to it, how I think a relationship should be.
Love, acceptance, trusting, honest, patience with one another, love them for who they are, at least try to understand one another, don't try to take everything so seriously, meaning a really good sense of humor.
Sure your going to get annoyed or in arguments with one another but hey that's life its going to happen but sh*t sometimes you just have to get over it and move on. Instead of holding it over their head or keep on repeating it to them over and over again.
Oh OK I think I'm done now.
I'm done and through I just came to the conclusion it's all the f**king same. Plus it really doesn't matter if its a guy or a girl. Women bi**h about men but yet, they go off and do the same exact thing or men bi**hing about woman, yet they do the exact same thing.
They want you to be honest with them but yet when you do, then they get all bent out of shape and start bi**hing about it, until you just want to keep your mouth shut. Then they say why don't you ever tell me the truth or ever talk to me any more.
Then there is you tell them to be honest with you and they don't. They either tell you a whole bunch of bull sh*t or just play games with you, and not tell you what is exactly on their mind.
Oh I love this one the f**king control freak, you let them do whatever the hell they want without bi**hing about it, because you really don't care, you just want to treat them like how you want to be treated. Then when you want to go out or do something they bi**h about it and their reason is really no reason at all. Or can you do this for me can you do that for me. Yeah sure, you want to do things for them, but MY GOD when the pen is right in front of your face and in reach that's just plain laziness.
The mind reader oh I love this your suppose to know whats on their mind, with out them telling you. Are you sure its OK yeah, yeah go ahead its fine. Then you come back and they start bi**hing at ya saying, I cant believe you actually went. You said it was OK, yeah but you should of known. Or the ones where your suppose to know that they like or dislike you, where your suppose to read their minds or they play little games with you, it's like just come out and say it d**n it.
The ones who are not themselves. They try to be like everyone else and not who they are. If you have something to say say it, if your being honest about it and that's how you feel, f**k it who cares what every one else thinks. You can actually tell the truth and whats on your mind, also without being rude or hurtful about it. If you like something or don't like something you have that right you shouldn't be forced to not like or dislike anything.
Manipulation also when they try to make you think they are one way but when you get with them, they mislead you. They were just trying to get you then you find out who they really are.
So basically, I'm through and over I have decided there is no guy out there that thinks the same way or at least a little close to it, how I think a relationship should be.
Love, acceptance, trusting, honest, patience with one another, love them for who they are, at least try to understand one another, don't try to take everything so seriously, meaning a really good sense of humor.
Sure your going to get annoyed or in arguments with one another but hey that's life its going to happen but sh*t sometimes you just have to get over it and move on. Instead of holding it over their head or keep on repeating it to them over and over again.
Oh OK I think I'm done now.
Is it everyday 
Keep the good mood and know that when you are totally disappointed with men, there is one way - you may become a lesbian 
Just pick the right woman 